Gurus and true identity
I see many people in my practice who converge around the same problem: they do not recognise themselves and find no comfort in their current lifestyle. Although many of them already have a consolidated identity, are good professionals, dedicated to their families, considerate with their friends and socially committed, when they find themselves alone the […]
From the depths of our heart
A friend’s father died 90 days ago, after a life of effort and work. A humble, hard-working family, faithful to what family life implies. A whole life devoted to his family, work, work, and more work, much sacrifice in the service of the family. In the little free time he had, he devoted it to […]
“It’s obvious… family comes first.” But at what cost?
And yes, of course, family is important and, for many people, it is the engine of their lives. But in some cases that I see, what really happens is that family comes first at the expense of oneself. Sometimes, behind making family a priority there is a renunciation of oneself, conscious or unconscious. And if […]
Between the gown, the cassock and the jeans
As a child I was an altar boy. I was fascinated by the inner corridors of the church: the passageways, the choir loft, the organ, the cupboards with the ceremonial vestments, the incense, the ceremonies, the iconography, the altars, the statues… That old-fashioned smell that permeated everything I still love. Even today I often go […]
Neon Heart
At my grandparents’ house there was always a Sacred Heart. In my office too, next to the bust of Plato. Both have always inspired me and continue to do so. And I have always found that images communicated, communicated to me, and that is why I have this neon sign that tells me every day […]
Savouring every word
In my regression sessions there is a hypnotic component, and that is why voice and word are so important. In my sessions there is no hurry. And I also always tell the person I am accompanying: “This is your morning, you are in charge.” It is part of the process of creating a sacred space. […]
The wound is where the light enters: Rumi on healing pain
I recently wrote that “I haven’t met a single person with an easy life.” But I’ve met many whose pain became the beginning of something luminous. Summer brings warmth, but for many, it’s also a season when quiet reflection surfaces, and old wounds speak louder. Rumi, the mystic, poet, and teacher of the soul, reminds […]
What you don’t express destroys you: hidden trauma and healing
“If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.” (Gospel of Thomas, apocryphal) Regardless of the source or origin of the phrase, when I read it I thought it could […]
The eclipse of the soul: when personality hides our inner light
At first glance, the moon is much smaller than the sun. In fact, the sun is 400 times larger… but it is also about 400 times farther away. That is why, when they align in an eclipse, the moon manages to cover it completely. The sun, all-powerful, is covered by a dark disc that does […]
When the soul vibrates
It is one more sign of the call of the soul. The soul vibrates when something is true for it. And it does so in subtle ways, or not so subtle, but unmistakable if we pay attention: an emotion that escapes you, a tear you do not know where it comes from, a feeling of […]